“Dear children, let’s not merely say that we love each other; let us show the truth by our actions.” – 1 John 3:18 NLT
Welcome to the seventh weekly devotional recap of the year. This week, we learnt about God’s design for the family and how to navigate relationships and conflict within it.
We began the week on Monday by seeing that the family is God’s institution (Genesis 1:27–28), not a random social construct, but one designed to reflect His love and fulfil His purposes on earth. Within the family, life begins, relationships are nurtured, and God’s principles are taught. God is the ultimate Father, and every family derives its identity and purpose from Him (Ephesians 3:14–15). Though families face challenges due to sin, they remain undeniably God’s idea. Therefore, make a commitment to build a family that reflects and honours God (Joshua 24:15).
On Tuesday, we learnt that family devotion is one of the most effective ways to train a child in the way of the Lord (Proverbs 22:6). The family is the first example for a child. If children grow up in a household with Christ at the centre, they are more likely to put Him at the centre of their lives. If we want to build a generation that serves the Lord (Joshua 24:15), families must model devotional fervour.
Wednesday’s devotional reminded us to honour our parents. Parenting is a huge sacrifice—one many fail to fully appreciate until they become parents themselves. God expects us to honour our parents and promises to reward those who do so (Ephesians 6:1–3; Exodus 20:12). Honour is practical and must be demonstrated. If you claim to honour your parents, it should be evident in your actions. This is reflected in obeying them (Proverbs 23:22), following their godly example (2 Timothy 1:5), and taking care of them.
Thursday’s article emphasised the importance of caring for one another—both biological and spiritual brethren. In Luke 10:25–37, Jesus taught that loving your neighbour goes beyond words and requires compassionate, selfless action. True love is shown through kindness and patience towards your siblings. You are your brother’s keeper, so let your love be evident in both word and deed (Luke 10:25–37; 1 John 3:16–18).
We ended the week by learning how to deal with family hurt and offences. God’s plan for the family is love and nurture, but conflicts may arise that cause pain. The Bible shows us examples of individuals who experienced betrayal within their families and shows us how to respond. Like Joseph (Genesis 50:20), we are called to forgive and trust God’s greater plan. It may not be easy, but His strength is available to help us fulfil His will (Philippians 2:13). Instead of holding on to bitterness, release your pain to God in prayer. In return, He offers healing, comfort, and peace (2 Corinthians 1:3–4; Philippians 4:6–7). No wound is too deep for God’s love to heal.
Dear believer, God loves you and has empowered you to reflect His love in your relationships. Even when it is difficult, remember that you have the help of Love Himself.
Have a beautiful weekend!
Bible Reading Plan: Leviticus 20-23; Acts 2:22-3