“But I say to you who hear: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, and pray for those who spitefully use you.” -Luke 6:27-28 NKJV
You may have heard stories of family members turning against one another for different reasons, and perhaps you have even experienced it firsthand. As absurd as these situations might be, the Word of God can help us to navigate them. We have examples of individuals who were betrayed by family members, and by their experiences, we can learn the right disposition to have.
It’s important to understand that God’s plan for the family is to love and nurture one another. However, the fall of man marred that plan. The first recorded murder in the Bible was between brothers—Cain, out of anger and jealousy, killed Abel (Genesis 4:8-14).
In handling family offenses and hurt, we must always be ready to forgive. Choosing to do things God’s way is not always easy, but you can rely on Him for strength. It is God who works in you, helping you to desire and fulfill His will (Philippians 2:13). Instead of bottling up your pain, bring it to God in prayer. This practice can help you let go of bitterness and embrace forgiveness (Matthew 5:44).
Joseph’s story serves as a powerful example of forgiveness. His own brothers betrayed him, yet he chose to forgive because he understood that God was working all things for his good (Genesis 50:20, Romans 8:28). When you trust that God is in control, you can release bitterness and walk in freedom.
In times of pain, God is your greatest Comforter (2 Corinthians 1:3-4). When you pour out your heart to Him, you invite His peace to guard your mind and emotions (Philippians 4:6-7). Prayer is not only about telling God how you feel; it is also an opportunity to receive His strength, wisdom, and healing.
Dear believer, the hurt that arises from betrayal, especially from loved ones, is completely understandable. Nonetheless, you can find healing in God’s love. Allow Him to heal your heart and strengthen you so that you can walk in love, even toward those who have wronged you. No matter how deep the hurt, remember that God’s love is deeper, and His grace is sufficient for you.
Bible Reading Plan: Leviticus 18-19; Acts 2:1-21