\u201cDo not be deceived: \u2018Bad company ruins good morals.\u2019\u201d – 1 Corinthians 15:33 (ESV)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Imagine driving through a city with no traffic lights, stop signs, or lane markers\u2014chaos, right? In the same way, relationships without clear boundaries can lead to confusion, compromise, and even spiritual harm. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

As believers, our love walk must be guided by God\u2019s Word, which serves as our ultimate traffic light system.Scripture is clear about the importance of boundaries. In 1 Corinthians 6:18, Paul instructs us to \u201cflee from sexual immorality.\u201d This isn\u2019t a suggestion to tread carefully; it\u2019s a command to run in the opposite direction. Why? Because sin, especially sexual sin, has a unique way of defiling not just our bodies but our spirits (1 Corinthians 6:19-20).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In relationships, green lights are those God-honouring qualities that align with His word. For instance, a partner who encourages your faith, respects your boundaries, and shares your commitment to purity is a green light.On the other hand, red flags are warning signs that shouldn\u2019t be ignored. Subtle compromises like cohabiting before marriage, dismissing biblical standards, or pressuring you to lower your convictions are serious red flags. Ignoring red flags can lead to heartbreak and spiritual compromise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dating and friendships are not just about feelings; they\u2019re about faith. Romans 12:2 urges us not to conform to the patterns of this world but to be transformed by the renewing of our minds. This means rejecting cultural norms that contradict Scripture, such as the idea that cohabiting is harmless or that boundaries are restrictive. God\u2019s boundaries are not barriers to happiness but safeguards for it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Finally, remember that God\u2019s grace is sufficient when we stumble. If you\u2019ve crossed boundaries in the past, scripture assures us that if we confess our sins, He is faithful to forgive us of all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9). Let His word guide you forward, setting the right boundaries, recognizing green lights, and heeding red flags. After all, the best relationships are those that honour God and reflect His love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bible Reading Plan: Numbers 18-20; Acts 10:1-23<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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